We live in a fast-paced world. Between work, family, and daily obligations, it seems like thereâs always something to do. Even when things are going smoothly, you can still feel stressed, tired, and maybe even a bit anxious.
Hereâs the good newsâyouâre not alone! Parenting, a job transition, or even just the busyness that consumes our lives causes weariness. Thatâs why itâs important to learn to rest well and make time for recovery. Even Jesus went away to pray.
Rest stop
Imagine youâre on a long car ride to your favorite vacation destination. After five hours, youâre more than a little tired, sore, and letâs face it, probably âhangry,â too. Suddenly, you spot a rest stop in the distance. Youâre able to pull over, stretch your legs, and get some much-needed fresh air and food.
We all need ârest stopsâ in our lives. God never meant for the Christian life to become so consumed with stress and worry that our souls reach empty. Running on fumes is exhausting and leaves us unable to give our best to our family, our friendships, and our daily tasks.
Knowing how to rest is just as important as knowing how to do your job or care for your family. Thatâs why Scriptures about rest highlight the importance of sitting at Jesusâ feet to draw from the living water and satisfying our weary souls.
The Promised Land
We all want rest. So did the Israelites! They wandered in the wilderness for 40 years. Thatâs a long time to never have a place to truly call home. They dreamed of the Promised Land, a place flowing with what they needed and with what their hearts desired.
Even after their disobedience, God never gave up on the Israelites. He, too, wanted to bring them into a restful place where they could settle and thrive.
Whatâs your âPromised Landâ? Maybe itâs a few moments of peace, a nap after work, or a chat with a friend. Regardless of the reason, God wants to bring you to new levels of peace and provision.
Sabbath
Weâre called to rest in the Lord. But rest and recovery doesnât come by striving. Weâve subconsciously believed a very persuasiveâthough well-meaningâlie. In our culture, worth equals work. We assume if weâre not working, then our needs will go unnoticed. After all, who will get the bills paid, the kids dressed, and the laundry folded?
Thereâs nothing inherently wrong with being a faithful servant who works hard and strives for excellence. But we can either work from a place of restlessness or restfulness.
The Bible points out that resting is a requirement for work. Yes, you read that right. Rest is a requirement. After creating the world, God rested on the seventh day [Genesis 2:2-3]. He even went so far as to set apart the seventh day of every week as a Sabbath day for His people to find restoration [Exodus 20:8-11]. He knows our restless hearts and desires to soothe them with healing only He can provide.
âCome to me all who are wearyâ
The Bible talks about resting in the Lord because He understands the intricacy of our souls. He knows that we need a resting place for heart, soul, mind, and body.
We can either work from a place of restlessness or restfulness.
For example, take a look at just a few of these Bible verses about rest:
- âCome to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.â â Matthew 11:28 [NIV]
- âHe makes me lie down in green pastures, He leads me beside quiet waters.â â Psalm 23:2 [NIV]
- âSo there is a special rest still waiting for the people of God.â â Hebrews 4:9 [NLT]
- âFor God alone my soul waits in silence; from Him comes my salvation.â â Psalm 62:1 [ESV]
When we read these calming Scriptures on rest, weâre reminded that knowing Godâthe true living God whoâs ready and willing to draw closeâgives us peace. Heâs more than capable of tackling our âto-doâ list. We donât need to draw our worth from our work but rather from the One who says weâre fearfully and wonderfully made.
Define rest
Decide that this year will be your âyear of rest and relaxation.â It might feel wrong, but rest is actually one of the most productive things one can pursue.
This doesnât mean that we forget our duties, throw in the towel, and sit eating cookies all day (though enjoying a baked item now and then canât hurt too much). However, it does mean that we cultivate intentional time and space for rest in our everyday lives.
We canât serve well, love well, or live well if weâre drawing solely from our own strengthâyou canât pour from an empty cup. We canât even make it to the ârest stopâ if our tank is already empty.
Godâs in control of our lives, and He wants us to prepare to use our hearts as much as our hands. So take a deep breath and plan a getaway with Jesus. Purposely invite God into your day-to-day. It will look different for everyone, but the important point is that you start.
Whether itâs as simple as a worship session after dinner, dedicating 30 minutes to a devotional study, a Christian podcast while taking a relaxing bath, or a gentle walk while listening to an audio reading of the Bible, there are a variety of ways to make time for restoration. Give yourself permission to be restful and relaxing with yourself and your family. The one who spoke the stars into place says that you are worthy of rest.

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